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A Change of Pace

I have had a really hard time posting an entry in the past week and a half or so. My mind was drawing a blank and when I forced myself to the computer to write, I ended up allowing myself to get preoccupied with ebay or reading other people's blogs. Truth is, I am finding the theme of my blog confining. Yes, I am a proud grandmother, but I am so much more, and I have so much more to share. The result is that I feel frustrated trying to relate all posts to a delightful role that means so much to me, but constitutes only part of my life. In my life I wear many hats, which I suspect, is the case with most people my age. Mother, Teacher, Daughter, Friend, Colleague, Volunteer, Entrepreneur, Reiki Master/Teacher, Single Woman, Senior Citizen, Tenant, Concerned Citizen, Mentor... all are roles that engage me and make me the person I am. I would like to blog about issues that affect these different roles, since this is what modern grandparents are. We don the hat of grandparent without relinquishing our other roles. The front porch with the rocking chair is gone and we would probably kick it off the porch anyway if it were still there.  We're younger, healthier and more educated than many grandparents of past generations and since we enjoy a longer life expectancy than the last generation, we continue to grow and develop interests well into our senior years.  So, don't be surprised if some of my future entries don't seem to directly relate to grandchildren or grandparenting. I can promise you only that my posts will resonate with modern, enlightened grandparents in all aspects of their lives.


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Preparing for the First Day at School - Grandparents Can Help

     Back to school is just around the corner. I am convinced that most students are really thrilled when September rolls around.  I have had many students from 1st grade up to 12th secretly admit to me that they missed their friends and are glad to be back. The ones who might be a bit hesitant, though, are the little ones going off to preschool for the first time, or the kindergarteners that either didn't go to preschool, or just got used to being home over the summer. It's really important to emotionally prepare them for the new experience ahead.
     You might be wondering how you, as a grandparent, can help with this. Of course, buying a special backpack, outfit, crayons, etc. sets the tone of the adventure to come, and grandparents could help with purchasing these items. Another, and more memorable way to help out, would be to give a gift of a very special book called The Kissing Hand by Audrey Penn. This is a wonderful gift for both your grandchild and his or her parents. More often than not, the child is not the only one who experiences the separation anxiety inherent in a little one going off to school.  I'm not embarrassed to admit that I followed the Kindergarten bus to school and back for the whole first week of Kindergarten for both of my children, even though they had already gone to preschool. That big bus, the officialness of it all, the nagging fear that the teacher wouldn't "understand" or be patient enough with my children, or worse yet, not recognize how special my children were, all made the event bittersweet. The Kissing Hand validates and honors the feelings of both the child and the parents.  In the story Chester the Raccoon and his mother find a way to carry each other's love with them throughout the day, even when they are apart, and it works to comfort and empower both of them. Giving this gift to your grandchild and his/her parents, affords them the opportunity to create their own "kissing hands" and they will thank you for it. Maybe the parents will even let you follow the bus with them!
 

                                                                                                                                                


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Let's Make Peanut Butter Balls!

Cooking with grandma should be fun, not complicated. Recipes with opportunities for the child to measure, pour, mix and generally dig right in are the best and the ones that your grandchild will ask to make with you time and time again. Cooking with Grandma can also be an opportunity to introduce a child to snacks with healthy ingredients. This recipe fills the bill on all counts. It is a nutritious treat that even a preschooler can put together without much help. It doesn't require any cooking, it's filled with healthy ingredients, and children of all ages love to make it and eat it

                                      Nona's Peanut Butter Balls Ingredients                                                                      :

1/2 cup of creamy style peanut butter
1/2 cup of powdered milk
1/2 cup of honey
3/4 cup of wheat germ

First combine the peanut butter, wheat germ, powdered milk and honey in a bowl.
Pull off walnut sized pieces, roll them into balls, and put onto waxed paper.
Refrigerate until firm.
(Makes about one dozen balls)

Try making them with different nut butters or different flavors of honey for a little variation. These snacks are also great to pop into a lunch box, but should be refrigerated for long term storage. Mangia!

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Watch what you say, Nona!

     The thunder cracked and I found myself just blurting it out. What the heck is it that makes these silly, completely unscientific, often times moronic, and many times self-esteem damaging phrases just pop out of my mouth as if they had a life of their own? "There's nothing to be afraid of,honey", I blurted out as she flew over to grasp my leg. "It's just the angels bowling". Angels bowling...geez...I didn't believe it when I was a kid and it certainly never made me feel less afraid. Hugs and songs got my granddaughter through the storm, but I am really more concerned with the fact that the cliché just flew out of me, without a censor. Although we have many fine family traditions I most certainly want to pass along to the next generation, there are many things that were said to me when I was a child that I definitely don't want to.  "Well, you better marry a rich man so you won't have to...(fill in the blank)" , " It's more important  to be pretty on the inside", and the proverbial "because I said so, that's why!" are small, but perfect examples of what I mean. My guard was up against them when my kids were little but I can see that I need to drag that censor out again. Besides, with computers, video games, i-pods and all the other state of the art technology, do children even know what bowling is anymore?


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Ten things a two year old can do while her Nona is busy having a yard sale:

1. Run up to Nona with arms outstretched upon arrival to completely make Nona's day.
2. Take a ride in the wagon Nona is using to move things from the house to the driveway.
3. Play with all the collectible dolls that are carefully displayed on the sale table.
4. Sit on the plastic potty that Nona is selling and ask for an M&M (guess who's in training?!)
5. Pretend to try to take a nap in the little tent Nona set up for just such an occasion.
6. Find and point to every ant within 5 feet of the tent and be afraid of every one of them.
7. Eat loads of Teddy Puffs and slurp down a juice box or two.
8. Announce the name of every vehicle passing by (correctly, I might add!)
9. Fall off the Dora folding chair requiring lots of hugs and reassurance that the world is really a safe place even though folding chairs tip over.
10. Look absolutely adorable while doing all of the previously mentioned activities.


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My "Furry Grandchild"

     Over the years I have come to believe in reincarnation. My first inkling that the nuns' explanation of life after death (sitting in heaven, forever gazing at God) didn't resonate with me was when I touched a dead pet and wondered where the "life" had gone. My epiphany was when I gave birth and wondered from where the "life" came. Spirit changing forms seemed a sensible explanation to me, as it does for millions who follow some Eastern religions. The one part I always had trouble with, however, was the belief that a human could come back in the next life as an animal . . . that is until four years ago, when my daughter came over with a little ball of black fur they named "Jackson." At the time, Sarah was just a twinkle in her daddy's eye, and so, Jackson became my "grandchild" and has remained my "furry grandchild" ever since. My attraction to Jackson was instantaneous. It was love at first sight. But who could blame me? King Charles Spaniels are all adorable, and Jackson wasn't any exception. But don't be fooled, it's more than that. If this dog isn't a human spirit reincarnated, I'll eat my hat! First of all, he understands everything anyone says. For example, he won't get upset when he hears the word bath, but if the conversation includes him possibly taking a bath, he's out of there. Or take the time my daughter and her husband skyped me from Europe when I was babysitting Jackson for a month. The first week they were away, he sat near me and watched them on the computer screen, listening to their voice with interest, but the second week, when they come on the screen, he got up, turned his back on them and sat down, completely ignoring their pleas to acknowledge them. He was angry that they were gone so long, no ifs, ands, or buts about it.
     Just as I do for my grandchild, I scour the yard sales for "Grandma equipment" to make Jackson's visits more comfortable. An example of this is the stairs I picked up so that he could more easily jump up onto my high bed to snuggle with me at night when I watch him. I'm not embarrassed to say that I've been known to refer to myself as his grandma in sentences like "If grandma slips you any more scraps under the table, your mom will get mad at me!", and "Grandma missed you". When I know he is coming, I buy him special treats, and yes, I even read the labels to make sure that they are "natural" and preservative free. Jackson more than pays me back by being absolutely delighted every time he sees me, by instantly forgiving me every time I accidentally step on his tail, and by giving me unconditional love all the time. Jackson is very important to my daughter and her husband and that would be reason enough to make him very important to me, but even if he weren't their pride and joy, he would still be special to me.  I'm not sure who he was in a past life, but he certainly has my deceased dad's disposition and he likes me to scratch his back, just like my dad did.... Who knows?


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5 Steps to a FREE $25 Amazon Gift Certificate

Here's my list for this week and it could mean a few bucks for you to spend on a little something for yourself!

  1. Decide to enter Nona's latest contest.
  2. Subscribe via e mail to Nona's Blog (look on the sidebar).
  3. E-mail a copy of the subscription confirmation you receive to me, at nonanitasnook@aol.com (if you are already a subscriber, e-mail me a copy of this blog entry that you have received through your e-mail).
  4. Check back on August 1st to see if your entry was picked in the drawing.
  5. Jump up and down with your $25 gift certificate to Amazon if you win!

The winner really could be you but you can't win it if you're not in it!


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Happy Gorgeous Grandma Day!

     I didn't know if 1-2-3-Cards made this up or not, but apparently today is Gorgeous Grandma Day. When this fact was brought to my attention by some clever e-mail marketing, I considered the idea and decided, heck, why not? Growing up with Barbie as a model, I have twisted, starved, cinched, and creamed, my whole life in an attempt to be gorgeous, so if somebody wants to invent a day to call me that just because I'm a grandma...what's not to like? My curiousity spiked, I researched this dubious holiday, however, and found out that Gorgeous Grandma Day was not as simplistic or superficial as it seemed at first glance. Actually, the designation was started by a woman over 50 who defined a "Gorgeous Grandma" more or less, in this way: A "Gorgeous Grandma" is every woman over 50 who believes she has her whole life ahead of her, not her whole life behind her. She wants to get the most out of every day of her life, in order to thrive, not just survive. She cares for her mind and her body, and remains adaptable to life’s bittersweet as well as sweet. A "Gorgeous Grandma" cherishes herself as much as she cherishes her loved ones. She refuses to remain static and is always open to learning, to new ideas, to new challenges, and to new experiences. In short, she loves life - and lets everyone know it!
I know women like that and I aspire to walk in their footsteps.
And so, to all the "gorgeous grandmas" who read my blog, here's my greeting to you. And for those of my readers who are not grandmas, I'll bet you know someone who deserves being sent this card today!


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Who Says You Shouldn't Play With Your Food?

    In my little cottage, cabinet space is at a premium, so I purchased a stand-alone cupboard. It's tall and narrow with lots of shelves, and a door that is easily opened at any level. This is where I keep the "snacks" and ever since Sarah was old enough to toddle, it is the first place she goes to when she visits. Not having the expense of feeding a family anymore, I have the luxury of buying those expensive organic snacks, which are fine with her, as long as there are some Sesame Street characters on the box. Alas, lately she has become a bit bored with these snacks, so I have decided to stretch my memory back to my Food Co-op/Playgroup in the Basement Days, and resurrect some oldies but goodies.

                                Nona's Make-a Snack Activity #1

This snack is a hit and can be made by children 2 and up. It is wonderful because it is a snack that becomes a play activity. Little ones practice eye/hand coordination as they eat, and big kids just marvel at how cool it is and "what is that brown stuff anyway?"
  1. Gather a package of thin pretzel sticks, one banana, and a half a cup of toasted wheat germ.
  2. Cut the banana up into slices about 3/4 inch thick, then quarter each slice.
  3. Put each item in a separate bowl and line them up in order.
  4. Show the child how to spear a banana piece with a pretzel stick, and then dip it into the wheat germ to coat it, and then pop it into his or her mouth.
  5.  Banana eaten? Now eat the pretzel and start all over again!

By the way, you don't have to tell them it's healthy unless you want to!

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Coloring, a Time Honored Kid Meditation

     Entertaining the older grandchild, between the ages of 8 and 12, is often a challenge. I would like to suggest that you don't overlook the allure of coloring.  Coloring is an activity that all adults who supervise children fall back on occasionally to "keep them busy".  Although it is not terribly creative, it does hone small motor skills, and serves the purpose of being an easy activity to begin and stop doing on a moment's notice. An added benefit to this activity is that the repetitiveness of coloring seems to soothe kids. Like in meditation, coloring puts one "in the moment" and, as a result, is very relaxing. Family restaurants caught on to this effect long ago, and often have a jar of crayons and a place mat to color on the table. I have even, on occasion, set my high school ESL kids to coloring materials for language activities (gasp!) and I find that coloring calms even the wildest, for at least a while. The problem is to find something that an older child can color which is sophisticated enough so that the child doesn't feel foolish in the process. The answer is close at hand. Carlton Hibbert, a U.K. illustrator, has shared a portion of his gift by creating a blog with free designs to color.  This is just the kind of coloring material that would engage an older grandchild, and Carlton makes it even more interesting by challenging the reader to send him finished products for possible display on this blog. I suspect that many adults use his designs for a coloring meditation on occasion. You can access Mr. Hibbert's blog by clicking here.  Enjoy!


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